About this episode

HouseSlaveFag muses on submission, findom, and the challenges of finding sex outside of Grindr while discussing plans to turn his blog into books.

HouseSlaveFag returns with a musings episode on submission, findom, and the trouble with finding sex once you're off Grindr. Struggling to hook up in his hometown, he floats a new fantasy — outsourcing his hookups to a matchmaker who'd drain him like a finsub and pimp him out at the same time. He also confirms his plan to turn his blog into five curated books. Topics in this episode Grindr, privacy, and the matchmaker fantasy (01:08) Turning the blog into books (04:37) Two weeks of denial and chasing sex (06:38) The guys I almost met (11:47) Findom vs. scamming (16:20) It's been two years this week since my first episode. While the musings will continue on this podcast, closing the blog isn't really an ending — it just means these stories finally become books, and I'm genuinely excited about that.

People in this episode

Host: HouseSlaveFag

Topics covered

• submission
• findom
• hookup culture
• matchmaker fantasy
• blog to book
• privacy

Mentioned in this episode

Books & works: Grindr

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