The Pep Talk You Need To Remember You're That B

The Pep Talk You Need To Remember You're That B

From A Really Good Cry by iHeartPodcasts

May 12, 2026 · 16 min · Episode 108

About this episode

Radhi discusses the importance of holding high standards in various aspects of life and differentiates between ego-driven and value-driven expectations.

Do your standards shrink the room? Have you ever been called too much, too intense, too selective, too particular? What if that's not a flaw, but proof of the work you've done on yourself?   In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi gets real about what it means to hold high standards — in dating, friendship, work, and with yourself. She breaks down the difference between ego-driven expectations and value-driven ones, and why knowing the difference changes everything.   In this episode, you'll learn: - Why being "low maintenance" isn't the flex we think it is. - The difference between ego standards and value standards. - Three tests to check if your standards are rooted in values or image. - Why "you're too much" is about their capacity, not your worth. - How Oprah, Serena Williams, and Indra Nooyi refused to shrink and won.   Your standards aren't the problem. Compromising them is. Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

People in this episode

Host: Radhi

Topics covered

  • high standards
  • self-worth
  • ego vs value
  • relationships
  • personal growth

Keywords

  • standards
  • self-improvement
  • relationships
  • ego
  • values
  • personal development
  • self-worth

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