Ep 388 - Dean Spade, Mutual Aid & Radical Relationship-Builder, on Love in a F*cked-up World

Ep 388 - Dean Spade, Mutual Aid & Radical Relationship-Builder, on Love in a F*cked-up World

March 12, 2026 · 1h 20m

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Dean Spade discusses the importance of healthy relationships in social movements and shares insights from his work on mutual aid and building connections in a challenging world.

Over the years, we've seen time and time again that healthy relationship are the glue that keeps our movements together. But it can be so hard, surprisingly hard, to build and maintain healthy relationships while struggling for a better world. Dean Spade is a longtime organizer and advocate for queer and trans liberation based in racial and economic justice. You may remember the name from his book Mutual Aid: Building Solidarity During this Crisis (and the Next), which became a bible and handbook for so many during the 2020 uprising. His newest book and podcast, Love in a Fucked-Up World: How to Build Relationships, Hook Up, and Raise Hell, Together, is a vibrant "call to action and a practical manifesto for how to combat cultural scripts and take our relationships into our own hands, preparing us for the work of changing the world." He comes through to talk about the mythologies we carry with us, the value of conflict, and the beautiful sexiness of messy connection. SHOW NOTES Buy Love in a Fucked-Up World - https://redemmas.org/titles/45565-love-in-a-fucked-up-world-how-to-build-relationships-hook-up-and-raise-hell-together/ Check out the podcast…

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