"Eat, Pray, Spank" by Topher Cusumano

About this episode

This episode features an essay by Topher Cusumano exploring themes of sexuality and personal trauma.

This week’s essay is called, “Eat, Pray, Spank” and is written by writer, producer, and comedian, Topher Cusumano. Topher is a creative director and a co-founder of DaddyTV where he makes shows like For the Love of DILFs, Slag Wars, Hot Haus & more. This week’s essay will be read by Jonah Wheeler. Jonah Wheeler is a pornographic actor and musician known for an enthusiastic and expansive approach to queer sexuality. Content themes and warnings for this week’s episode are: divorce, sex work, religious trauma, BDSM, and kink. Follow Topher Cusumano & DaddyTV Instagram ⁠ @tophcus TikTok ⁠@tophcus Instagram @daddyTV TikTok @daddyTV_ Watch DaddyTV shows on OutTV Follow Alphabet Club: Instagram:⁠ @alphabetclubpod⁠ Tik Tok:⁠ @alphabetclubpod⁠ Website: ⁠https://www.thealphabetclub.co/⁠ Follow Shannon Beveridge: Instagram: ⁠@nowthisisliving⁠⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠@nowthisisliving⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.shannonbeveridge.co⁠⁠⁠ Twitter: ⁠⁠⁠@nowthisisliving⁠⁠⁠ Tumblr: ⁠⁠⁠http://now-this-is-living.tumblr.com⁠⁠⁠ Snapchat: shannonbeverage Spotify: ⁠Shannon Beveridge current playlist Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

People in this episode

Host: Shannon Beveridge

Guest: Topher Cusumano

Topics covered

• divorce
• sex work
• religious trauma
• BDSM
• kink

Keywords

• Eat Pray Spank
• Topher Cusumano
• BDSM
• kink
• divorce
• sex work
• religious trauma

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: DaddyTV

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