Why Foster and Adoptive Kids Test Relationships
About this episode
This episode explores why foster and adoptive children test relationships and the underlying trauma and fear of abandonment that can lead to conflict.
Many foster and adoptive parents have experienced it. Things seem to be going well, and suddenly your child starts an argument, rejects help, pushes boundaries, or creates conflict that doesn't seem to make sense. It's easy to take these moments personally. It's easy to wonder why a child would push away the very people who are trying to love them. In this episode of Raising Kids Through Hurt, Shawn explores why some foster and adoptive children test relationships, what trauma and loss can teach children about trust, and how fear of abandonment can show up as conflict, rejection, or chaos. This episode is not about excusing hurtful behavior. It's about understanding what may be happening underneath it while still teaching accountability, healthy relationships, and emotional safety. If you've ever found yourself asking, "Why are we fighting right now?" this conversation is for you. You're doing better than you think you are. Topics discussed: • Foster parenting • Adoptive parenting • Trauma-informed parenting • Attachment and trust • Fear of abandonment • Relationship testing • Parenting children from hard places • Emotional regulation • Building connection and accountability…
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