About this episode

Julius Marques discusses the structure and importance of consensual non-consent in BDSM, emphasizing the need for clear communication and boundaries.

Send us Fan Mail CNC can look like chaos from the outside, but the real version runs on structure. I’m Julius Marques, and around the Kinky Kampfire I’m getting specific about consensual non-consent: what it is, what it is not, and why “we didn’t talk about it” is the fastest way to turn a fantasy into harm. We walk through the foundations of CNC kink and BDSM consent, including pre-negotiation, clear boundaries, and the reality that consent is ongoing and revocable. I also hit a myth head-o...

People in this episode

Host: Julius Marques

Topics covered

• consensual non-consent
• BDSM
• kink
• boundaries
• safewords
• consent

Keywords

• consensual non-consent
• BDSM consent
• kink
• safewords
• boundaries
• pre-negotiation

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