S3xless Existence Video Review | S5 EP126

About this episode

The episode reviews a conversation with Dr. Debra Soh about the impact of pornography on sexual expectations and relationships.

Send us Fan Mail Porn gets blamed for everything, but the real story is harder and more important. I’m reviewing a Modern Wisdom podcast conversation with Dr. Debra Soh and pausing on the parts that actually affect real relationships: how porn can shape sexual expectations, why “aggression” on a screen is not the same thing as consent in a bedroom, and where people get hurt when they copy what they saw without any negotiation. We dig into research on sexual aggression in pornography, includi...

People in this episode

Host: Julius Marques

Guest: Dr. Debra Soh

Topics covered

• pornography
• sexual expectations
• consent
• sexual aggression
• relationships

Keywords

• pornography
• sexual expectations
• consent
• sexual aggression
• relationships
• Modern Wisdom
• Dr. Debra Soh

Mentioned in this episode

Books & works: Modern Wisdom

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