4. When No means Yes: Consensual Nonconsent

About this episode

The episode discusses the complexities of consensual nonconsent with psychologist Lil.

We welcome Tom to the podcast! In this episode we are joined by special guest Lil, a registered psychologist, to discuss the big, complex and sometimes scary topic of consenting ’nonconsensual’ play. Physical and psychological safety get a thorough work over, and Lil gets into the science about what might be happening in your brain.

People in this episode

Host: tegalex

Guests: Tom, Lil

Topics covered

• consensual nonconsent
• psychology
• safety
• sexuality
• brain science

Keywords

• consent
• nonconsensual play
• psychological safety
• sexuality
• brain science

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Ask Doctor Kink, tegalex

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