About this episode

Joshua Stamper and Chris Valli discuss the importance of vulnerability in leadership and its role in building trust and connection.

What if vulnerability is not a weakness, but the very thing that helps leaders build trust, connection, and courage? In this episode of Aspire to Lead, Joshua Stamper talks with Chris Valli, a New Zealand author, keynote speaker, former journalist, educator, and founder of the VOIC framework, Vulnerability Opens Inner Courage. Chris shares how a highly publicized turning point in his teaching career became the catalyst for a deeper understanding of authentic leadership, emotional intelligence, and the power of using your voice. Together, they explore the hidden cost of “having it all together,” the role of storytelling in creating belonging, and why difficult conversations are essential for healthy school culture. Chris also discusses reframing masculinity, building psychologically safe environments, and how courage grows when leaders are willing to be seen, speak honestly, and lead with empathy, compassion, and purpose. About Chris Valli Chris Valli is a New Zealand author, keynote speaker, former journalist, educator and founder of the VOIC Framework (Vulnerability Opens Inner Courage). Following a highly publicised turning point in his teaching career, Chris transformed…

People in this episode

Host: Joshua Stamper

Guest: Chris Valli

Topics covered

• vulnerability
• authentic leadership
• emotional intelligence
• storytelling
• psychological safety
• courage

Keywords

• vulnerability
• leadership
• trust
• empathy
• storytelling
• psychological safety
• courage
• emotional intelligence

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: VOIC framework

Places: New Zealand

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