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Angela Santomero discusses insights from her experience co-creating children's programming and how it can aid parents of neurodivergent kids.

There is research behind that four-beat pause on Blue's Clues. It wasn’t a creative choice or a lucky accident . It was Angela Santomero, co-creator of Blue's Clues, Super Why!, and Daniel Tiger's Neighborhood, standing on set and asking herself how long it actually takes a child to formulate a real answer. That pause — the one your kids leaned toward the screen for — is the same pause that can change everything about how you talk to your neurodivergent kid. In this episode, I sat down with Angela to talk about what she learned across thirty years of co-creating some of the most beloved children's programming ever made, and what parents of neurodivergent kids can take directly from that research and apply at home. We talked about why repetition is not boring, but how kids master skills. We talked about scaffolding without taking over, and the difference between giving kids answers versus giving them a little more room to reach their own. Angela shared why kindness is not soft (it is actually a leadership skill backed by research) and how to raise intrinsically motivated, kind kids without nagging them through it. We also got into how these shows can help neurodivergent kids…

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