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This episode explores why men may feel lonely after good conversations and the importance of emotional intimacy.

Why do some men spend an afternoon talking about sports, parenting, and work, only to drive home listening to The National or James Blake and cry a little? In this episode, we explore the hidden loneliness of “good” conversations and why being around people isn’t always the same as feeling seen. In this episode, we discuss: Why men can feel lonely even after spending time with friends The difference between proximity and true emotional intimacy Why tears often show up in the privacy of the car How masculine social norms keep conversations safe but shallow The grief of almost feeling connected Small ways to make friendships 10% more honest and meaningful Why authentic connection is one of the strongest protective factors against suicide  Thrive With Leo Coaching :  If you want to reduce your psychological pain, regain your purpose and forge your own path, go to www.thrivewithleo.com to begin your journey. If you or anyone you know is considering suicide or self-harm, or is anxious, depressed, upset, or needs to talk, there are people who want to help: In the US:  Crisis Text Line : Text CRISIS to 741741 for free, confidential crisis counseling.  The National…

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