After Dark Edition :: Spilling Reality Tea at 3UP

About this episode

Johnette and Ashley discuss women's experiences in dating and personal growth with guest Erin from Netflix's Age of Attraction at a rooftop lounge.

The filter is coming all the way off! This week, Johnette and Ashley took the podcast on the road to the award-winning 3UP Rooftop Lounge in Carmel, Indiana. Joining the table is the hilariously unfiltered Erin from the Netflix hit show Age of Attraction . The ladies dive deep into why women often feel the need to "tone it down" for men, the hilarious "grandpa words" that kill the mood instantly, and the powerful therapy session that changed Erin’s life forever. Whether you’re navigating the dating apps, recovering from "church hurt," or just looking for the best rooftop vibe in Indy, this episode is your ultimate girls' night out.

People in this episode

Host: Johnette Cruz

Guest: Erin

Topics covered

• women's empowerment
• dating
• therapy
• social dynamics
• humor
• self-improvement

Keywords

• dating apps
• church hurt
• women's issues
• therapy
• humor
• Carmel Indiana
• 3UP Rooftop Lounge

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Netflix

Books & works: Age of Attraction

Places: Carmel, Indiana, 3UP Rooftop Lounge

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