Understanding the Mattering Instinct with Philosopher Rebecca Goldstein EP 449

About this episode

Sarah and Laura discuss non-fiction reading and interview philosopher Rebecca Goldstein about the human instinct to matter.

In today's episode, Sarah and Laura chat non-fiction reading, and then interviews Rebecca Newberger Goldstein, a philosopher, writer, and expert on what it means to matter, and why humans instinctually feel pulled to feel like they matter - even to themselves! They talk mattering projects from parenting and relationships to the pursuit of excellence. Rebecca's book is called The Mattering Instinct: How Our Deepest Longing Drives Us And Divides Us, and she has a substack called The Mattering Map. In the Q&A, a listener wonders how Sarah is doing about a year after her heart episode and diagnosis. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

People in this episode

Hosts: Sarah, Laura

Guest: Rebecca Newberger Goldstein

Topics covered

• mattering instinct
• philosophy
• parenting
• relationships
• non-fiction reading
• pursuit of excellence

Keywords

• mattering instinct
• Rebecca Goldstein
• philosophy
• parenting
• relationships
• excellence
• non-fiction

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: The Mattering Map

Books & works: The Mattering Instinct: How Our Deepest Longing Drives Us And Divides Us

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