How To Stop Choosing the Wrong People, with Sheleana Aiyana

How To Stop Choosing the Wrong People, with Sheleana Aiyana

July 30, 2025 · 53 min

About this episode

Nicole Behnam interviews Sheleana Aiyana about healing emotional wounds and building healthy relationships.

In this episode Nicole sits down with Sheleana Aiyana , founder of Rising Woman and author of the international bestseller Becoming the One , to explore what it truly means to heal emotional wounds, interrupt old relationship patterns, and come home to the self. Raised in a turbulent environment, Sheleana shares her personal journey through trauma, abandonment, and healing — and how those experiences inspired her to help millions of people reconnect with themselves and build conscious, healthy relationships. This conversation peels back the layers of emotional inheritance, attachment patterns, and how we can rewire our stories from the inside out. Why people unconsciously repeat painful patterns in love and life The difference between fear and intuition when it comes to decision-making What “self-responsibility” really looks like in the healing process How to identify safe, emotionally mature connections The myths about healing that keep people stuck This is not a conversation about quick fixes. It’s a deep, raw, and honest exploration of what it means to take ownership of your life without shame, blame, or perfectionism. Becoming the One — Her bestselling guide to healing and…

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Host: Nicole Behnam

Guest: Sheleana Aiyana

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Organizations: Rising Woman

Books & works: Becoming the One, The Becoming Journal

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