About this episode

The episode discusses the cultural perception of Black men in relation to music and societal values, highlighting the contrast between desirable traits and the overlooked qualities of responsible men.

Black women keep screaming, “There are no good Black men!” But then a song like Yung Miami’s “Spend Dat” comes out and suddenly the culture tells the truth about the type of Black man it actually celebrates. The scammer. The street dude. The man with questionable money. The man flashing cash, buying bags, paying bills, and spending recklessly on women. THAT man becomes desirable. Meanwhile, the hardworking Black man with a regular job is called broke. The responsible man building his future is boring. The man trying to save money doesn't have enough motion. The emotionally available man gets called soft. The good man gets overlooked because he doesn't have enough followers, enough jewelry, enough designer clothes, or enough money to fund a lifestyle he can't afford. But when the scammer goes to jail, the street dude cheats, the toxic relationship falls apart, or the money disappears, suddenly the conversation becomes... “WHERE ARE ALL THE GOOD BLACK MEN?” Maybe you ignored them. On this episode of the Black Men's Mental Health Podcast, Casanova Williams dives into Yung Miami's controversial record and the bigger cultural problem nobody wants to address: We complain about negative…

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