I Treated Narcissists for Years and Never Saw a Collapse — Here's What Really Happens

I Treated Narcissists for Years and Never Saw a Collapse — Here's What Really Happens

September 10, 2026 · 27 min · Season 5 · Episode 305

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Kerry McAvoy discusses the deceptive nature of narcissistic breakdowns and the mechanics behind them.

Why did the narcissist’s collapse look so real — curled on the floor, shaking, sweating, begging you not to leave — yet nothing changed after? What looks like a breakdown is often a temporary loss of status, not a loss of identity — the defensive structure drops for 30 seconds, then rapidly reconsolidates and the manipulation continues. This is a highlight from a recent live Q&A, repurposed here as our second weekly podcast segment. In this episode, Kerry unpacks the hidden mechanics be...

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Host: Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.

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