Brief Talk Podcast – Dating, Kinks, and Communication: When to Be Honest with Dr Ty

Brief Talk Podcast – Dating, Kinks, and Communication: When to Be Honest with Dr Ty

July 10, 2026 · 28 min

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UNB Tim and Dr. Ty discuss the importance of communication and honesty about kinks in relationships.

One of the biggest questions we hear from listeners is: “When do I tell someone I’m into underwear?” Whether your passion is briefs, bikinis, thongs, jocks, lingerie, spandex, or another fetish, talking about it with a partner can feel intimidating. Should you bring it up on the first date? Wait until you’re in a relationship? What if you’ve been together for years and have never said anything? This week, UNB Tim sits down with clinical sexologist and sex therapist Dr. Ty to answer those questions and many more. Together they explore how to communicate openly about kinks, why honesty builds stronger relationships, and why shame has no place in healthy sexuality. This conversation isn’t just about underwear—it’s about authenticity, communication, and finding partners who accept you for who you really are. In This Episode Why the timing of sharing your kink depends on how important it is to your sexuality The difference between a casual interest, a fetish, and a primary kink Why honesty early in dating can actually save relationships How hiding a major kink can unintentionally feel like a “bait and switch” The “Share-Check” method for introducing fantasies and kinks gradually Ways…

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