About this episode

Camilla attempts a DIY bang trim inspired by TikTok, while Jessica explores the difference between being nice and being kind.

Camilla tries a DIY bang trim after watching ONE TikTok. It goes about as well as you’d expect. Jessica, meanwhile, has a question that’s been top of mind: what’s the actual difference between being nice and being kind? Turns out it’s not just the word choice — it’s everything. One is armor. The other takes real courage. They get into spilled catastrophes, the invisible “good girl” rulebook Hollywood handed them decades ago, and whether any of this theory survives being asked if you’ll switch a window seat for a middle seat. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

People in this episode

Hosts: Camilla, Jessica

Topics covered

• DIY
• self-improvement
• kindness
• societal norms
• Hollywood
• personal experiences

Keywords

• DIY
• bang trim
• TikTok
• kindness
• societal norms
• Hollywood
• good girl rulebook

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Dear Media, TikTok

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