When Your Family Runs On Blame

When Your Family Runs On Blame

July 21, 2026 · 30 min

About this episode

Whitney Goodman discusses the dynamics of blame in families and how to break the cycle.

Something goes wrong at home. A glass tips over. Someone forgot to change the laundry, unload the dishwasher. The dog escapes. Within seconds there's a full trial underway about whose fault it is. Whitney breaks down what's actually happening in families that run on blame. In this episode, you'll learn: Why blame feels like accountability but actually prevents it How the scapegoat and golden child both learn about fault The three-part anatomy of real repair What to do when you can repair and your family can’t How to stop the cycle blame with your own kids Whitney Goodman is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and the founder of Calling Home, a membership community that helps people navigate complex family dynamics and break harmful cycles. Have a question for Whitney? Send a voice memo or email to whitney@callinghome.co Join the Family Cyclebreakers Club: https://callinghome.co Follow Whitney on Instagram | sitwithwhit Follow Whitney on YouTube | @whitneygoodmanlmft Order Whitney's book, Toxic Positivity: https://sitwithwhit.com/toxic-positivity Sign up for updates on Whitney's new book: https://cmnyyv4kpyt.typeform.com/to/PHMzjy0o This podcast is for informational…

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