The Day I Grew Up: Finding Out My Cousin Was My Mother (PART 2)

The Day I Grew Up: Finding Out My Cousin Was My Mother (PART 2)

July 15, 2026 · 1h 5m · Episode 74

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Cate and D.A. continue their discussion on trauma and systemic issues in kinship adoption, reflecting on personal experiences and loss.

Cate is back with D.A. ( @difficult.adoptee ) to continue the exploration of trauma, systemic failure, and survival. DA shares her journey of growing up in a controlling, highly restrictive kinship adoption and the moment she realized her family was built on performance and lies. From navigating a volatile reunion with her biological mother and a dangerous encounter with her biological father, DA reflects on the systemic lack of regulation in kinship placements. She also shares the layering grief of losing her infant son in the second trimester, drawing powerful parallels to her own mother’s unacknowledged postpartum grief. Thank you to our sponsors! Alloy: Get your menopause treatment plan today. Visit myalloy.com and use code BREAKITDOWN for $20 off your first order! Cashapp: Download Cash App Today https://click.cash.app/ui6m/hn9nkrvk #CashAppPod. Cash App is a financial services platform, not a bank. Banking services provided by Cash App's bank partner(s). Prepaid debit cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC. Cash App Visa® Debit Flex Cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC, and The Bancorp Bank, N.A., pursuant to a license from Visa U.S.A. Inc. See terms and…

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