About this episode

This episode explores why top performers hesitate to take on leadership roles and the factors influencing their decisions.

You’ve got someone on your team. They’re trusted. Reliable. The one everyone goes to. And naturally… you start thinking: they’re next. But when the opportunity comes up? They hesitate. Or they say no. In this episode, we’re unpacking what’s really going on—because this isn’t about a lack of ambition. Your top performers aren’t avoiding leadership. They’re responding to what they see. And what they’re seeing doesn’t look like something they want to step into. In this episode, we explore: Why promoting top performers without redefining the role sets them up to struggle What happens when responsibility increases—but clarity doesn’t The impact of siloed leadership and lack of collaboration at the top Why burnout, indecision, and constant pressure make leadership look unappealing The invisible emotional load leaders carry (and why others notice it) How lack of development, coaching, and support becomes a dealbreaker The unspoken question your future leaders are asking: “Do I want to become that?” Follow for more: https://audreyblair.com/waitlist

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