When Fighting Is the Only Way You Feel Close

When Fighting Is the Only Way You Feel Close

February 18, 2026 · 33 min · Episode 83

About this episode

This episode explores how fighting can lead to deeper connections in relationships, focusing on attachment styles and the dynamics of couples who thrive in chaos.

What if your biggest fights are actually your deepest moments of connection? In this Fight Club episode, we unpack anxious vs. avoidant attachment, makeup sex, and why some couples feel closer through chaos than calm. -- Got a fight you want us to break down on the show? Submit it here and we’ll analyze it using Love Styles (attachment styles) and Lead Styles (enneagram) : https://go.bayside.church/fightclub

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