About this episode

Reed and Bethany discuss body hair, beauty standards, and the empowerment found in embracing one's natural appearance.

What happens when you stop treating your body hair as something that needs fixing and start seeing it as part of what makes you attractive? In this episode of Come Curious, Reed chats to Bethany, producer of Come Curious and host of The Sassy Show, about being a proudly hairy woman with a beard. They dive deep into body confidence, beauty standards and hair fetishes. Bethany shares her journey from shaving from the age of 10 to embracing her natural body hair and how queer & kinky communities helped her feel more confident in her body. We get into: Being a hairy woman: body hair, beauty standards & body acceptance Hair fetishes: when being fetishised can feel empowering vs objectifying Razor play & grooming: the intimacy of letting someone else care for your body Body confidence: learning to see and touch your body without shame Talking to partners: asking for reassurance, praise and what you actually need Tune in for a conversation about body hair, kink, fetishisation, confidence and unlearning the idea that your natural body needs to be changed. Follow Bethany on IG @bxsassy2 and get to know her platform The Sassy Show Watch the full video, see…

People in this episode

Host: Reed

Guest: Bethany

Topics covered

• body confidence
• beauty standards
• hair fetishes
• body acceptance
• kink
• queer communities

Keywords

• body hair
• beauty standards
• body confidence
• hair fetish
• kink
• queer community
• self-acceptance

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Come Curious, The Sassy Show

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