Male Etiquette in the Kink Scene w/ Kyron Kruger - performance anxiety, latex love & power play

About this episode

Reed and Kyron Kruger discuss male etiquette in the kink scene, exploring topics like performance anxiety and the importance of communication and consent.

What does it actually mean to be a man in the kink scene? This week on Come Curious, Reed is joined by Kryron Kruger - latex-loving, boundary-pushing content creator who’s redefining what it means to be a man in sex work. Together they unpack male etiquette in BDSM from communication and consent to performance pressure and what it really takes to show up respectfully in kink spaces. Kyron shares how he found himself in the industry through fetish communities, why being a male sex worker is far more than just sex, and how emotional intelligence, trust, and reputation are everything. Expect to hear ALL the juice on: – Why men need to stop expecting people to read their minds – The truth about performance anxiety (and why erections ≠ good sex) – How to respectfully approach dominatrixes (and why your DMs aren’t it) – The importance of serving your partner — even as a dom – Breaking down shame around men, desire, and vulnerability This episode is honest, eye-opening, and essential listening for anyone navigating kink, dating, or sex with more awareness.Follow Kyron on IG @the_kyron_kruger and see his latex loving side @king_kruger_ Watch the full video, see exclusive content and…

People in this episode

Hosts: Reed, Florence Bark

Guest: Kyron Kruger

Topics covered

• male etiquette in kink
• BDSM
• communication and consent
• performance anxiety
• emotional intelligence
• vulnerability

Keywords

• kink scene
• BDSM etiquette
• male sex worker
• performance pressure
• emotional intelligence
• dominatrix
• vulnerability

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Come Curious, Patreon

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