About this episode
Reed explores the challenges of reaching orgasms and shares insights on pleasure and performance pressure.
Ever feel like everyone else is having mind-blowing Os while you're still trying to figure out what all the fuss is about? In this solo episode, Reed dives into one of the most common questions in seggs: why can orgasms feel so difficult to reach? From cl"toral Os and G-spots to nipple Os, footgasms and everything in between, Reed shares her own experiences navigating pleasure, performance pressure and learning what actually works for her body. She explores the biggest O blockers — including stress, overthinking, hormones, shame, medication and unrealistic expectations — and explains why chasing an O is often the fastest way to stop one from happening. Plus, she tackles: 💦 Why faking Os helps nobody 🧠 The mind-body disconnect that kills pleasure 🔥 How solo play can transform partnered seggs ✨ What our Curious Fckers revealed about their O habits ⚡ The difference between pleasure and performance Whether you O every time, rarely get there, or are still figuring out what works for your body, this episode is a reminder that pleasure isn't one-size-fits-all. Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on Patreon Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious…
People in this episode
Host: Reed
Topics covered
- orgasms
- pleasure
- performance pressure
- sexual health
- mind-body connection
- sexuality
Keywords
- orgasm
- pleasure
- sexuality
- performance pressure
- mind-body disconnect
- solo play
- O blockers
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Organizations: Patreon, Instagram
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