Stop Sending This Opening Message (It’s Getting You Ghosted)

About this episode

This episode explores why first messages on dating apps often fail and how to improve them by understanding the psychology behind the dating app inbox.

Most guys think their opener is the problem, but she's already decided to unmatch before you even hit send. In this episode, we break down the psychology of the dating app inbox and why your first message is failing. From the "Hey" forfeit and over-investing to the reality of competing in a crowded inbox, we explore how your profile does the selling for you. Learn how to trigger an emotional response, avoid the neediness trap, and stop treating your messages like a job application. VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT: Watch this playlist to figure out how to fix your failing marriage: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPuu_G8-sTLS7eXT7myvidMF Watch this playlist to help you get over your ex for good: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPsZ9JCTSAIkin-oMnavqNJZ Watch this playlist to develop an unshakable frame and take control of your life: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPvgN8idHfGfOp3gA8Y0tMxT&si=NccZ6koKYz3hSuUz -------------------------------------------- FREE EBOOKS ➡️ She's Made You Weak: https://ebook.fixdeadbedrooms.com ➡️ Fine... Here's How You Get Her Back: https://ebook.getoveryourex.us -------------------------------------------- BOOKS AND…

People in this episode

Host: Paul B.

Topics covered

• dating apps
• first messages
• psychology
• emotional response
• communication
• relationships

Keywords

• dating
• ghosting
• opener
• profile
• neediness
• communication
• relationships

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