From Shame to Self-Discovery: Navigating Sexuality, Dating Apps and Safety in Gay Life with Zachary Zane
About this episode
Zachary Zane joins Brian and Mark to discuss the journey of coming out, bisexuality, and navigating modern relationships.
Coming out is often portrayed as the destination—but for many men, it's actually the beginning of a whole new journey. In this episode of Coming Inside Out, Brian Janes and Mark Dembo welcome author, columnist, and LGBTQ advocate Zachary Zane for a wide-ranging conversation about bisexuality, shame, sexual identity, dating, community, and modern relationships. @zacharyzane_ Zach shares his own coming-out story, discusses the ongoing challenges bisexual men face, and offers practical advice for men navigating dating and relationships after coming out later in life. The conversation also explores open relationships, polyamory, monogamy, and what healthy communication looks like regardless of relationship style. Whether you're newly out, questioning, or simply looking for a deeper understanding of sexuality and connection, this episode is packed with insight and perspective. Guest: Zachary Zane Author of Boyslut, sex columnist, LGBTQ advocate, and Grindr's Sex & Relationship Expert. Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, a parent, someone exploring your…
People in this episode
Hosts: Brian Janes, Mark Dembo
Guest: Zachary Zane
Topics covered
- sexuality
- dating apps
- bisexuality
- shame
- relationships
- community
Keywords
- coming out
- bisexuality
- dating
- relationships
- LGBTQ
- communication
- polyamory
Mentioned in this episode
Books & works: Boyslut
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