About this episode

Pauline McGrath shares her and her husband's journey with Voluntary Assisted Dying following his terminal cancer diagnosis.

After Pauline McGrath's husband David was diagnosed with terminal cancer, he chose to use Voluntary Assisted Dying. Pauline supported him through the journey as he took the steps to end his life.A few years ago, Pauline came home from work and found the lights on and the dog already fed. This was something which had never happened in her 30-year marriage to David, a director of paediatric medicine at Queensland Children's Hospital. Straight away, Pauline asked David, "Who has died?" Her beloved husband told her he had a brain tumour, and that voluntary assisted dying was going to be an option for Queenslanders in six months. This moment began a heartbreaking but ultimately empowering path for David, Pauline and their family. David's wish was for Pauline to speak openly about their family experience. So that's what she's been doing while grieving her husband, supporting her two daughters, and embarking on the next chapter of her own life. Content warning: this episode of Conversations contains discussion of death and dying. Further information Help and support is always available. Call Lifeline on 131114 - they are available 24 hours a day. Since Sarah spoke with Pauline in 2024…

People in this episode

Guest: Pauline McGrath

Topics covered

• Voluntary Assisted Dying
• terminal cancer
• family experience
• grief
• medical autonomy
• marriage
• love

Keywords

• Voluntary Assisted Dying
• terminal cancer
• brain tumour
• grief
• family
• medical treatment
• marriage
• love
• children

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Queensland Children's Hospital, Lifeline

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