About this episode

Tess Woods shares her unexpected wedding journey from a grand Egyptian celebration to an intimate elopement in Fiji amidst family turmoil.

Author Tess Woods had always dreamed of her big day, growing up watching her beloved Nana create in-demand bridal gowns. The stories of these dresses became a way for Tess to understand her family’s origins in North Africa, which she left in the late 1970s. (Warning: This episode references the loss of a child.) Tess moved to Melbourne from Egypt when she was five years old. At large family gatherings, Tess dreamed of a big, fat, Egyptian wedding with 250 guests, food for days, belly dancing — the works. But after she became engaged to her sweet, mild-mannered Australian boyfriend Paul, Tess’ parents’ marriage imploded and she decided to elope to Fiji with a wedding party of just 11. Tess’ cherished and feisty Nana made her wedding dress and her wedding underwear, and the nuptials were an unexpected hit. Tess and Paul moved their young family to Perth to begin their own story, which would unfold with ambition, tragedy and religion. Further information The Cairo Bridal Shop is published by Penguin Random House. This episode refers to the loss of a child. Please contact Red Nose on 1300 308 307 if you need support. This episode was produced by Alice Moldovan. The Executive Producer…

People in this episode

Guest: Tess Woods

Topics covered

• migration
• wedding
• family
• loss
• culture
• religion

Keywords

• Egyptian wedding
• loss of a child
• homemade wedding dress
• migration
• Coptic Christian
• stillbirth
• family gatherings
• wedding elopement

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Penguin Random House, Red Nose

Books & works: The Cairo Bridal Shop

Places: Egypt, Melbourne, Perth, Fiji, Kyoto

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