Ep 333: Con Men and Coercive Control: The Psychology of Deception with Sarah Ferris, Part 1

About this episode

The episode discusses the psychology of deception and coercive control through the story of Sarah Ferris and her experience with a conman.

We all like to think we would know a conman when we see one – that’s what savvy Sarah Ferris thought when her sister Emma introduced her to the man she met on Tinder. His name was Andrew Tonks – only it wasn’t. His real name was Andrew W C Tonks Thomson. After six months of dating him he conned her out of more than $250,000. Together with her sister, Sarah, and a brilliant group of women – they didn't let him get away it and turned the tables on him. They made a podcast about it as it happened in real time called Conning the Con. And Tonks/Tomson is still making headlines, having been charged with offences relating to six more victims and a new trial in the Supreme Court. You won’t want to miss this. Listen and learn about: • Grooming, manipulation, and the psychology of influence; • Why intelligent, capable people can be targeted and entrapped; • The importance of recognising patterns - not isolated incidents; • Trusting your instincts and understanding risk; • Prevention, awareness, and protecting yourself and others; 🎧 Listen, learn, and share - you could change your life. #CrimeAnalyst #SarahFerris #CONmunityPodcast #CoerciveControl #BehaviouralAnalysis #TrueCrime…

People in this episode

Host: Laura Richards

Guest: Sarah Ferris

Topics covered

• coercive control
• deception
• manipulation
• grooming
• psychology of influence
• victim awareness

Keywords

• true crime
• manipulation
• gaslighting
• hidden abuse
• trust your instincts
• red flags
• pattern recognition
• women safety
• empowerment
• prevention

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Conning the Con, CONmunity Podcast

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