Quickie w/ Julie: Proof You Aren't Bad At Relationships (Even If You've Been Single A Long Time)
About this episode
Julie explores how our dating history influences our self-perception in relationships and encourages listeners to reassess their capacity for healthy connections.
We often judge how "good" we are at relationships based on our dating and relationship history, but what if it's the least complete picture? In this episode, Julie explores why romantic relationships often become intertwined with our identity, causing breakups, rejection, or being single to feel like proof that we're "bad at relationships." She helps you look deeper at your connection portfolio and the other evidence of your capacity for healthy relationships. If dating has made you question your worth, this episode will help you separate your romantic outcomes from your ability to create deep, lasting connection. Enjoy! Take the Dating Archetypes quiz now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Read our book: How To Be Dateable: The Essential Guide To Finding Your Person and Falling in Love: https://howtobedateable.com/ Try the Dateable AI Dating Coach: Get personalized advice trained on our years of podcast episodes, courses and frameworks: https://studio.com/dateable Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcasts The Psychology of Relationships and Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts…
People in this episode
Host: Julie Krafchick
Topics covered
- relationships
- self-worth
- dating
- identity
- connection
Keywords
- relationships
- dating
- self-worth
- identity
- connection
- breakups
- rejection
Mentioned in this episode
Organizations: Dateable AI Dating Coach, Fling app
Books & works: How To Be Dateable: The Essential Guide To Finding Your Person and Falling in Love
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