#186 - The Friend Who Copies You: Flattering or Frustrating? (Candace Ourisman)
About this episode
The episode discusses the dynamics of friendship when one friend copies another's style and the importance of acknowledging each other's strengths.
What do you do when a longtime friend copies everything you wear and do—without acknowledging the inspiration? Inspired by a reader question I answered for Real Simple, I talk with creative director Candace Ourisman about when imitation feels flattering and when it starts to feel uncomfortable. The conversation ultimately lands on something deeper: why acknowledging your friends’ strengths and offering simple compliments matters more than we think. Special thank you, as always, to my assistant producer, Rebekah Jacobs!
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