Q&A! Confessing To Cheating A Decade Later & Crushing On Your BFF's Boyfriend - Ep 489

Q&A! Confessing To Cheating A Decade Later & Crushing On Your BFF's Boyfriend - Ep 489

From Dear Shandy by Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine

September 10, 2026 · 1h 20m · Episode 489

About this episode

In this Q&A episode, Sharleen and Andy tackle listener questions about confessing to past infidelities, handling workplace interruptions, and navigating crushes on friends' partners.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! You're happily married with kids but you carry a secret from a decade ago, before starting a family. Is it worth rocking the boat to tell the truth all these years later? If you like your coworker but hate how she ALWAYS cuts you off, what's the best way to fix her social faux-pas? Your mother-in-law keeps cornering you to trauma dump—how do you draw the line between devoted daughter-in-law and de facto therapist? And what to do when you can't stop crushing on your best friend's dashing boyfriend? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. A special thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for an exclusive 20% off on home and sleepwear! - Go to  https://laundrysauce.com  and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://fabletics.com/SHANDY  for 70-80% off everything as a new VIP! - Go to https://squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or…

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