Rewire Your Brain & Get "Unsingle" With Amy Chan - 461

About this episode

Amy Chan returns to discuss her new book on dating and relationship patterns.

*Special Announcement* Dear Shandy will be moderating Amy's Book Launch Event in NYC on May 5th, 2026! For more info visit: https://luma.com/unsingle It's not every day we bring back a Hot Topic guest, but when Amy Chan writes a new book, YOU BRING HER BACK. Dubbed the “scientific Carrie Bradshaw” by The Observer, Amy is a relationship expert, author, and founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp and Dating Bootcamp, retreats that apply a scientific, psychological approach to healing heartbreak and rewiring dating patterns. It has been 4.5 years since we first had Amy on, and now with her new book, "Unsingle: How to Date Smarter and Create Love That Lasts" (April 28, 2026), she shares the science of rewiring your brain to actually find success in your love life. Today Amy chats your unconscious patterns, how being otherwise "high-achieving" is working against you, and at what leg in the "Dating Funnel" you're getting stuck. We promise you'll never see dating the same way again after hearing Amy's insights. Watch on to get "Unsingle"! Our first episode with Amy: https://youtu.be/FRXrV7AXHwY?si=NRMBdTNNAKy1PwEg Thanks to our sponsors: - Go to https://curehydration.com and use code…

People in this episode

Hosts: Sharleen Joynt, Andy Levine

Guest: Amy Chan

Topics covered

• dating
• relationships
• self-improvement
• psychology
• book launch

Keywords

• dating patterns
• relationship expert
• rewiring brain
• self-help
• book launch

Sponsors

Cure Hydration, Cozy Earth, Perelel Health, Squarespace, Quince

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Renew Breakup Bootcamp, Dating Bootcamp

Books & works: Unsingle: How to Date Smarter and Create Love That Lasts

Places: NYC

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