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Elisabeth McKay discusses the potential pitfalls of modern healing practices like shadow work and IFS, emphasizing the importance of integration over fragmentation.

What if the very thing you believe is healing you… is actually fragmenting you further? In this episode of Decoded , Elisabeth McKay dismantles the modern obsession with shadow work, parts work, Internal Family Systems (IFS), and psychedelic healing culture —not from a place of dismissal, but from a neurological and behavioral perspective most people never stop to examine. The core argument is simple: Healing should create integration, not division. Elisabeth breaks down how many modern healing systems unintentionally encourage people to: Separate into identities and “parts” instead of correcting distorted patterns Justify maladaptive behavior instead of interrupting it Confuse emotional validation with truth Reinforce self-deception under the guise of self-exploration Become more fragmented, unstable, and disconnected from objective reality This episode explores the intersection of neuroscience, perception, language, trauma patterns, psychedelics, and identity formation , while confronting one of the biggest blind spots in modern healing culture: Just because something feels profound doesn’t mean it’s medicine. If the work you’re doing creates more chaos, more personas, more…

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