Swift's storytelling trick in You Need To Calm Down and how to master it

About this episode

The episode explores the storytelling techniques used in Taylor Swift's song 'You Need To Calm Down' and their relevance to effective speaking and writing.

You Need To Calm Down is Taylor Swift’s buoyant pride anthem and the fourth song on the Era’s Tour set list. But it also uses one of the most important storytelling tricks, used by everyone from Dickens to Churchill to Martin Luther King, Jr. Indeed, as Joe and Toni reveal, the song contains most of the tricks you need to know to be a memorable speaker and writer. And if people don’t remember what you say, it doesn’t matter what you say. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

People in this episode

Hosts: Joe Romm, Toni Romm

Topics covered

• storytelling
• music analysis
• public speaking
• writing techniques
• Taylor Swift
• pride anthem

Keywords

• Taylor Swift
• You Need To Calm Down
• storytelling tricks
• public speaking
• writing
• music commentary

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Books & works: You Need To Calm Down

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