S5E2: The David SF Interview

About this episode

David SF discusses his experiences as a sex worker and the themes of his new book, The Four Rooms.

Send us Fan Mail David SF, also known as David Wichman is an award-winning author whose work is shaped by nearly two decades as a sex worker—bringing a rare, unfiltered perspective to conversations around desire, intimacy, and shame. His writing doesn’t sanitize the experience; rather it leans into it. In his new book, The Four Rooms, David invites readers to explore sexual freedom and self-acceptance by confronting the parts of themselves they’ve been taught to hide. I've been following Davi...

People in this episode

Guest: David Wichman

Topics covered

• desire
• intimacy
• shame
• sexual freedom
• self-acceptance

Keywords

• sex work
• writing
• sexuality
• self-acceptance

Mentioned in this episode

Products: The Four Rooms

Books & works: The Four Rooms

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