Cruel Optimism, or What We Seek Can Make Us Suffer

About this episode

This episode discusses the concept of cruel optimism and how our desires can lead to suffering.

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People in this episode

Host: josh korda

Topics covered

• optimism
• suffering
• Buddhism
• spirituality
• self-reflection

Keywords

• cruel optimism
• suffering
• Buddhism
• spirituality
• self-help

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