Shelley Rood on the Wildflower Assessment, Women Veterans, and Serving Without Losing Yourself

About this episode

Shelley Rood discusses her journey as a woman veteran and the importance of personal identity beyond military service.

Summary: What happens when service becomes more than what you do and starts shaping who you are? In this heartfelt episode of Dog Tag Diaries, Captain Kim sits down with Shelley Rood, a former U.S. Army Intelligence Officer, speaker, and creator of the Wildflower Assessment. Shelley shares how 16 years of service, a painful discharge, faith, motherhood, and her love for women veterans led her to build a new way of helping others feel seen. Through her Others Over Self philosophy and the Wildflower Assessment, Shelley helps women veterans better understand their leadership style, communication needs, relationships, and personal growth. This conversation is full of honesty, friendship, purpose, and a powerful reminder that serving others should not mean losing your own spark. In this episode, we cover: Shelley Rood’s childhood and early drive for personal achievement How 9/11 led Shelley toward military service Her 16 years as a U.S. Army Intelligence Officer The painful end of her military career Shelley’s desire to become a chaplain Faith, divorce, motherhood, and personal growth Building stronger friendships with women veterans The origin of the Wildflower Assessment How the…

People in this episode

Host: Captain Kim

Guest: Shelley Rood

Topics covered

• women veterans
• personal growth
• military service
• leadership
• faith
• friendship

Keywords

• Wildflower Assessment
• military career
• personal achievement
• communication needs
• Others Over Self
• leadership style
• women veterans support

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: U.S. Army, Women Veterans Engage

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