You Can't Submit and Stay in Charge at the Same Time - Dom Sub Devotion #127

About this episode

This episode discusses the conflict between submission and control in relationships and the importance of trust and surrender.

Episode 127: You Can't Submit and Stay in Charge at the Same Time   Download the free guided meditation mentioned in this episode:   https://www.infinitedevotion.com/offers/aZEToAu5   Links Mentioned in This Episode:  Lovense toys (affiliate):   https://www.lovense.com/r/c5fglq Submissive Foundations:   https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations One of the most common questions Andrew hears from women: how do I feel submissive when my life requires me to be in control?   This episode is the honest answer. Submission and control are opposites. You cannot grip everything tightly and also experience the freedom that comes with letting go. The more useful question is why you need to be in control of everything in the first place, and whether you actually have the capacity to trust and surrender.   A good man will not force you to step back. If you won't let go when someone is willing to lead, he will eventually stop trying. Your submission is yours to offer, and that means you are an active participant in making it possible.   Download the free guided meditation mentioned in this episode…

People in this episode

Hosts: Andrew, Dawn

Topics covered

• submission
• control
• trust
• surrender
• relationships
• self-awareness

Keywords

• submission
• control
• trust
• surrender
• relationships
• meditation
• self-awareness

Sponsors

Lovense

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Infinite Devotion, Submissive Foundations, Apple, Spotify, YouTube, Instagram

Products: Lovense toys

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