Dating in the Second Act with Kimberly Seltzer

About this episode

This episode explores dating after 40 with Kimberly Seltzer, offering strategies to build confidence and navigate modern relationships.

Dating after 40 can feel intimidating, but it can also be one of the most exciting and empowering chapters of your life. In this episode of the Every Day Peace Podcast, Dr. Dravon James sits down with Kimberly Seltzer—confidence therapist, dating coach, and host of The Charisma Quotient—to explore how to approach love in what she calls the “second act.” Kimberly shares practical strategies and mindset shifts to help later-in-life daters build confidence, embrace their femininity, and navigate modern dating with ease. From rediscovering your flirtatious side to working through past relationship baggage, this conversation is packed with wisdom for anyone ready to find love again. In this episode you will discover- The mindset shifts that make dating after 40 feel exciting, not scary The most common mistakes people make when re-entering the dating scene How to project sexy confidence at any age The role of femininity in modern dating for women balancing work, family, and more Ways to break free from emotional baggage and old relationship patterns If you’re ready to step into dating with confidence, fun, and authenticity—this episode will inspire and guide you toward love in your…

People in this episode

Host: Dr. Dravon James

Guest: Kimberly Seltzer

Topics covered

• dating after 40
• confidence building
• modern dating
• femininity
• relationship advice

Keywords

• dating
• confidence
• femininity
• relationship baggage
• second act

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: The Charisma Quotient

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