What to Do When Your Kid Does Something "Naughty": Understanding Child Misbehavior and the Power of Curious Parenting

What to Do When Your Kid Does Something "Naughty": Understanding Child Misbehavior and the Power of Curious Parenting

March 3, 2026 · 24 min · Episode 49

About this episode

This episode discusses understanding child misbehavior and how to respond effectively through curious parenting.

In this solo episode of the Educated Parent Podcast, I’m talking about what to do when your child does something that feels intentionally “naughty.” From peanut butter in the hair to Sharpie on the walls, moments of child misbehavior can feel personal, frustrating, and completely overwhelming. I know how easy it is to assume our kids are doing these things on purpose. In the moment, naughty behavior can feel like sabotage. But what if most child misbehavior is not defiance at all? In this episode, I walk through why kids misbehave from a developmental perspective and explain how our reactions can either escalate conflict or turn the situation into a teaching moment. I share how curious parenting has helped me respond more effectively and why regulating ourselves first is the most important step. In this episode, I cover: • Why kids misbehave even when they are not trying to cause problems • How developmentally appropriate behavior can look like naughty behavior • How I calm myself before responding to child misbehavior • How curious parenting helps prevent power struggles • How to turn frustrating moments into opportunities for growth If you have ever felt personally attacked by…

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