Getting What You Want Requires Being a Selfish Bitch

About this episode

This episode discusses how embracing selfishness can help women achieve their desires and break free from societal conditioning.

What if the very thing you've been taught to avoid…looking like a bitch...is the exact thing that unlocks everything you want AND MORE ? In this episode, we dismantle the good girl conditioning that keeps you small, over-giving, unfulfilled, and stuck settling for scraps or crumbs and replace it with the provocative truth that results in me and my clients getting what we want... Are you ready for it? Getting what you want requires you to be 1000x more selfish and self-centered…and fully willing to be seen as the bitch. Yes, THAT bitch who gets what she wants or something even wetter, better, hotter. You're being initiated into being the woman who prioritizes her desires, holds unapologetic standards, and commands her reality without waiting for permission. The type of stuff people think makes you a total bitch or villain. But in the words of one of my favorite quotes going around right now... "I might be the villain in your story, but you're a loser in mine." And you are no loser. So act accordingly. Inside this episode you'll hear... Why being the likable good girl is costing you your hottest, deepest desires and how being a selfish bitch activates your power and magnetism The…

People in this episode

Host: Amber Renée

Topics covered

• selfishness
• boundaries
• people-pleasing
• empowerment
• desires
• good girl conditioning

Keywords

• selfish bitch
• good girl conditioning
• boundaries
• empowerment
• desires
• people-pleasing
• villain era

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