About this episode

Dr. Destiny Huff discusses her experiences as a late-diagnosed autistic and ADHD military spouse, focusing on advocacy and education for neurodivergent learners.

Dr. Destiny Huff, a late-diagnosed autistic and ADHD military spouse, therapist, and special education advocate, joins Lily and Erin for a powerful conversation on parenthood, identity, and reimagining advocacy. As the founder of Destiny Huff Consulting, she works with families across the U.S. to make education systems more responsive, compassionate, and effective for neurodivergent learners. In this episode, Destiny shares how her own diagnosis transformed the way she supports families and children. She explains what it means to build neuroaffirming practices , from presuming competence and honoring autonomy to designing goals that match real learner needs. Destiny also breaks down what an IEP really is; a program , not a plan, and how parents can ask for meetings, request changes, and find collaboration instead of conflict. The discussion explores bias in diagnosis, barriers faced by Black and Brown families, and how educators can check their assumptions to better support every student. Key Moments 00:00 Tribute to Alice Wong 08:13 "Advocacy and Neurodivergence Insights" 15:24 "Neuroaffirming Special Education Handbook" 19:17 Centering Voices in Autism Advocacy 22:37…

People in this episode

Hosts: Lily, Erin

Guest: Dr. Destiny Huff

Topics covered

• parenthood
• neurodiversity
• advocacy
• education
• identity
• special education

Keywords

• autism
• ADHD
• neuroaffirming practices
• IEP
• advocacy
• education systems
• Black and Brown families
• diagnosis bias

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Destiny Huff Consulting

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