About this episode

Kim and Grandma Gail discuss the factors that contribute to attraction and the importance of lifestyle compatibility in relationships.

This week, Kim and Grandma Gail are getting into what actually makes someone attractive, and why being “hot” might matter a lot less than you think. From Love Island and first-date chemistry to money, ambition, confidence, and what really matters once the honeymoon phase wears off, they debate whether attraction can grow over time and how much lifestyle compatibility should factor into who you choose. They also talk AI, influencers, and Grandma’s less-than-glamorous week dealing with healthcare in the Hamptons. Follow us on Instagram @excusemygrandma @ ⁠⁠kimmurstein⁠ TikTok @excusemygrandma and @excusemygrandmapod Watch on YouTube Spotify Read our Excuse My Advice Column and watch on YouTube

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