Ep. 578: Be the Oak Tree, Not the Thundercloud w/Eric Collins

About this episode

Eric Collins discusses the importance of emotional stability and intentional leadership in fatherhood and business.

Eric Collins is a California entrepreneur, tax strategist, and business owner who has built and sold companies while navigating major physical adversity, including breaking his neck in five places and surviving multiple spinal fusions. In this episode, he and Ned go deep into discipline, certainty, emotional stability, fatherhood, business ownership, marriage, and the kind of intentional leadership most men want but rarely see modeled clearly. Eric shares practical systems he’s built into his home life — from making breakfast for his sons every morning for nearly a decade to helping lead an 80-man “Dad’s Club” at his sons’ school that has raised hundreds of thousands of dollars for families and students. This is one of those conversations that quietly sneaks up on you. It starts with stories about fishing trips, school fundraisers, and parenting struggles, but underneath it is a serious conversation about becoming the kind of man your family can trust. Eric talks openly about growing up around abuse, wrestling through ego and unhealthy habits, learning to control his reactions, and realizing that discipline without emotional connection was damaging his relationship with his son…

People in this episode

Host: Ned Schaut

Guest: Eric Collins

Topics covered

• fatherhood
• leadership
• emotional stability
• discipline
• business ownership
• parenting
• community involvement

Keywords

• fatherhood
• leadership
• emotional connection
• discipline
• parenting struggles
• community
• California

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Dad’s Club

Places: California

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