About this episode

Dr. Ken and Cynthia discuss the challenges of differing parenting styles among families and how to maintain consistency in raising teenagers.

Dr. Ken and Cynthia tackle one of the trickiest parts of raising teenagers: what happens when the other parents in your world handle things very differently than you do. From phones and parties to dating rules, sleepovers, vaping, alcohol, and “everybody else is allowed,” they talk through how parents can stay consistent without trying to control every influence around their kids. They discuss the tension that comes when your kid feels like everyone else has more freedom, why trying to micromanage your teenager’s environment usually backfires, and how parents can balance standing firm on important issues without turning every disagreement into a battle. Dr. Ken also explains why phones continue to be the biggest source of conflict in families today—and why helping teens grow in judgment matters the most. If you’ve ever felt exhausted trying to hold boundaries while every other family seems to be doing something different, this episode is for you. If you have a minute, please leave us a review. We love hearing listeners encouraging other listeners. You can order Dr. Ken's book "Feeding The Mouth That Bites You" here You can order Cynthia's book "Life Is Messy, God Is Good" here…

People in this episode

Hosts: Dr. Ken, Cynthia Yanof

Topics covered

• parenting
• teenagers
• boundaries
• family dynamics
• conflict resolution

Keywords

• parenting
• teenagers
• boundaries
• conflict
• freedom
• phones
• vaping
• alcohol

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: John David Kent

Products: Feeding The Mouth That Bites You, Life Is Messy, God Is Good, How'd I Miss That

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