
What to Do When a Husband Won't Lead Spiritually?
From Fierce Marriage by Ryan and Selena Frederick
March 17, 2026 · 36 min · Season 7 · Episode 435
About this episode
The episode discusses how wives can cope when their husbands do not lead spiritually, emphasizing biblical principles and the importance of gentle encouragement.
Today we dive deep into the heavy reality of wives who are carrying the spiritual load alone. We break down the biblical definition of headship—Prophet, Priest, and King—and explain how a wife can win her husband "without a word" through a gentle and quiet spirit, while also giving a direct, sobering call to men to repent and embrace Godly leadership. RESOURCES: Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!
People in this episode
Hosts: Ryan Frederick, Selena Frederick
Topics covered
- spiritual leadership
- marriage
- biblical headship
- communication
- gentle spirit
- repentance
Keywords
- spiritual leadership
- marriage communication
- biblical headship
- gentle spirit
- Christian leadership
Mentioned in this episode
Organizations: Fierce Marriage, The Fierce Family, 40 Prayers, 31-Day Pursuit Challenge, The News is Good, YouTube
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