Episode 399: Joyspotting with Alex Elle

About this episode

Alex Elle joins the hosts to discuss friendship, expectations, and her new book on connection and growth.

New York Times bestselling author (and highly-requested guest!) Alex Elle joins the show to ask how we are playing a role in other people’s lives, setting expectations for what we need from others, and what friendship means at midlife. They discuss her new book, The Company We Keep: Friendship, Connection, and Redefining What It Means to Grow Together , her quick form of journaling, and deepening her understanding of what it means to hold grief and gratitude together. To leave a voicemail or text for a future episode, reach Doree & Elise at 781-591-0390. You can also email the podcast at forever35podcast@gmail.com. Visit forever35podcast.com for links to everything they mention on the show or visit shopmyshelf.us/forever35 . Follow the podcast on Instagram (@Forever35Podcast) and sign up for the newsletter at the free tier on Patreon ! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

People in this episode

Hosts: Doree Shafrir, Elise Hu

Guest: Alex Elle

Topics covered

• friendship
• midlife
• grief
• gratitude
• journaling
• connection

Keywords

• friendship
• midlife
• journaling
• grief
• gratitude
• connection
• Alex Elle

Mentioned in this episode

Books & works: The Company We Keep: Friendship, Connection, and Redefining What It Means to Grow Together

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