My Kid Only Obeys to Please Me — Here's the Biblical Fix

My Kid Only Obeys to Please Me — Here's the Biblical Fix

April 21, 2026 · 21 min · Episode 315

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Elizabeth Urbanowicz discusses how to raise obedient Christian children without fostering people-pleasing behavior.

How do you raise an obedient Christian child without accidentally training them to be a people pleaser or to just fear consequences? In this episode, Elizabeth Urbanowicz answers a listener's question about teaching kids healthy obedience that flows from a love for God — not a fear of man. In this episode you'll learn: Why lowering behavioral expectations is NOT the biblical answer (and what to do instead) How to tailor your discipline for a people-pleasing child vs. a strong-willed child The heart-probing questions that turn discipline moments into discipleship moments

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